Adoption of Patty.

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COMMONWEALTH OF MASSACHUSETTS

APPEALS COURT

24-P-141

ADOPTION OF PATTY. 1

MEMORANDUM AND ORDER PURSUANT TO RULE 23.0

The mother appeals from a decree issued by a judge of the

Juvenile Court terminating her parental rights to her child.

She asserts that (1) there was insufficient evidence to support

the finding of unfitness, and (2) the Department of Children and

Families (department) improperly terminated visits between her

and the child, resulting in prejudice to her at trial. 2 As

discussed in more detail below, after a trial the judge found

that the mother suffers from alcohol misuse and severe anger

management issues. The child has refused in-person visits with

the mother since 2018. We affirm the judge's decree.

1A pseudonym. We use the same pseudonym as adopted by the
Supreme Judicial Court in an earlier appeal in this case,
Adoption of Patty, 489 Mass. 630, 648 (2022).

2The father's parental rights were also terminated, but he
is not a party to this appeal.
Background. The child was born in 2010. The department

removed the child from the mother in November 2014 following an

incident in the home where the mother was alleged to have

punched and bitten her boyfriend while intoxicated, and while

the child, then four, was at home. The department filed the

underlying care and protection petition and was granted

temporary custody of the child. In July 2015, the mother

stipulated to her unfitness, and the child was placed in the

permanent custody of the department, though the goal was to work

toward reunification. In July 2016, the mother filed a motion

for review and redetermination pursuant to G. L. c. 119, § 26

(c).

There have been three trials in this matter. The first

took place in February 2020. The mother's parental rights were

terminated but the termination decrees were vacated, and the

case was returned to the trial list. The second trial took

place in September 2020. The judge found mother unfit and

terminated her parental rights. The mother appealed, and, in

May 2022, the Supreme Judicial Court vacated the termination

decree and remanded the matter to the juvenile court. See

Adoption of Patty, 489 Mass. 630, 648 (2022) (manner in which

virtual trial was conducted violated mother's due process

rights).

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After the termination decree from the second trial was

vacated, in June 2022, the department reopened the mother's

case. 3 In November 2022 the mother filed a pro se motion for

therapeutic visitation, stating that she "anticipate[s] therapy

and [one hour] a week visitation." 4 The child was then twelve

years old. The previous guardian ad litem (GAL) was reappointed

to evaluate the issue of visitation. No further action was

taken until February 2023, when a hearing on the motion

commenced. 5 The motion hearing was eventually consolidated with

the third trial, which began in March 2023. At the conclusion

of the third trial, the judge found the mother unfit and

terminated her parental rights. The following facts are derived

from the detailed findings the judge made in support of that

determination.

3The mother met with the department once that month, but
was then incarcerated from July 2022 through October 2022.
Despite attempts to locate her, the department was unaware until
September 2022 that the mother was incarcerated.

4At the hearing, when the judge asked what the mother was
asking him to do, the mother's counsel stated that she was
"asking [the judge] to order the [d]epartment . . .to get this
child into therapy" and "locate a family therapist to help
determine how best to clinically reengage her in therapy with
[the mother]."

5The judge noted that the delay between the filing of the
motion in November 2022 and the hearing in February 2023 was due
to "agreements" amongst the parties, in an attempt, according to
her attorney, to resolve the matter short of a hearing.

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1. Alcohol abuse and anger issues. The mother has a

significant and longstanding history of alcohol misuse. The

department has been involved with the family since 2011, when

the child was one year old, due to concerns about the mother's

alcohol misuse while caring for the child. The mother

periodically engaged in substance abuse treatment, and, at the

time of trial, resided in a sober home. Her periods of sobriety

have been interrupted by relapses in 2014, 2016 (while living at

a sober home), 2017, and 2020.

In addition to alcohol misuse, the mother struggles with

mental health issues including anxiety, depression, and

explosive disorder. She completed several anger management

programs and engaged in therapy. Her therapist testified that

the mother gets dysregulated easily and can become angry and

verbally and physically aggressive when she does not get her

desired outcome. This volatility was apparent in the mother's

interactions with the department, with her own mother, and in

her demeanor at trial. 6 Although the mother denied that she is

6 In November and December 2019, the mother left three
voicemail messages for the social worker, calling her a "cunt"
in each one and telling the social worker to "watch her back"
and that the mother knew where social worker lived. In December
2022, during a meeting with the social worker, the mother
stated, "I don't know how this will end, maybe I will throw a
bomb, or kidnap [the child]."

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an angry person, she acknowledged that she struggles to control

her emotions.

The mother's alcohol abuse and volatility have contributed

to her lengthy criminal history. Between 2015 and 2020, the

mother was convicted of a number of charges including assault

and battery (multiple counts), threatening to commit a crime,

violation of a restraining order, and operating under the

influence of liquor, second offense. She was incarcerated for

six months in 2018 on the conviction for violating a restraining

order, and received either probation, a suspended sentence, or a

split sentence for the other convictions. She was incarcerated

at least twice during the pendency of the petition as a result

of violating the conditions of her probation.

Between 1998 and 2020, the mother was the defendant on four

harassment prevention orders and fourteen abuse prevention

orders. The 2020 harassment prevention orders stemmed from the

mother's attempts to locate the child in foster care. In 2019,

she googled the child's name and found a record associated with

a certain church. The mother went to the Christmas Eve service

at that church and thought she saw the child getting into a car.

The mother then followed the car to a nearby home, knocked on

the door, and asked the teenager who answered if Patty was

there. When the teenager told the mother that the child had

just left, the mother wrote a note stating, "[Patty] is not

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yours," and left the note under the door mat. A resident of the

home obtained a harassment prevention order against the mother.

2. Visitation history. The mother has not had visitation

with the child since October 2018. Prior to that, from 2014,

when the child was removed, to October 2018, the mother and the

child had fairly regular visitation. These visits took place at

the department's area office, in the community, or at jail if

the mother was incarcerated. By all accounts, the visits

generally went well.

However, during a visit in February 2018 while the mother

was incarcerated, the mother asked the child, then seven years

old, whether she had ever sent the child to school dirty,

whether she was ever mean to the child, and whether the child

had ever seen her smoking cigarettes. The mother was emotional

throughout the visit, and, following this visit, the mother did

not want the child to visit her at jail. Visits resumed upon

the mother's release from jail and occurred monthly between

April and July 2018, at which the mother behaved appropriately,

but by the end of August 2018, the mother was again

incarcerated.

In October 2018, the mother had moved from jail to a

transition program. During a visit at that program, the mother

asked the child (who was then eight years old, and had been

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moved to a preadoptive home two months earlier) whether the

child liked her foster mother more than the mother and stated

that she needed to know about where the child was living. Later

in the visit, the child drew a picture and offered it to the

mother. The mother refused to take the picture, telling the

child to take it home to her "real mother." The social worker

attempted to redirect the mother, without success, and therefore

decided to end the visit as Patty was "hysterical." As the

child was making her way to the building exit with the social

worker, the mother picked the child up and brought her back to

the visitation room. The child asked to be put down but the

mother did not do so until she was prompted by the social

worker. The child later told the social worker that she was

afraid to see her mother because she was afraid her mother would

pick her up and squeeze her again and that it hurt.

Following the mother's release from incarceration at the

end of December 2018, the department scheduled three visits the

following month, but the child refused to go. 7 On January 24,

2019, the mother had a supervised phone call with the child.

The call ended with the child crying hysterically in response to

a comment made by the mother. In February 2019, the mother

7 The mother had been sent back to jail following the visit
after an altercation with a correction officer at the transition
program.

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filed a motion seeking to compel visitation. The court

appointed a GAL to evaluate the issue of visitation and the

child's refusal to attend visits, but the mother later withdrew

her motion to compel visitation.

Between March and August 2019, the mother was not

responsive to the department's attempts to contact her. When

the mother contacted the department in August 2019, she

requested visits with the child. The social worker told the

mother that the child did not want to visit with the mother.

The mother responded that she did not care what the child

thought.

From the last in-person visit in October 2018, through the

end of the second trial in 2020, the department continued to

schedule visits between the child and the mother and worked to

make the child more comfortable with visits. The social worker

would speak to the child the day before the scheduled visit to

see if the child wanted to attend, and would speak with her

again on the day of the visit to see if the child had changed

her mind. The child never changed her mind and continued to

refuse visits and calls with the mother. The child has

expressed fear that the mother would try to take her from a

visit or try to kidnap her. The department asked the child's

therapists to address her relationship with the mother and her

fears about having contact with the mother, and offered to have

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a police officer present at the visits, but the child continued

to refuse visits.

Discussion. On appeal, the mother contends that (1) the

evidence was insufficient to support the judge's determination

that she was unfit, and (2) the department improperly terminated

her visitation with the child, which prejudiced her at trial.

We address each contention in turn.

1. Unfitness. A judge's decision to terminate parental

rights must be supported by "clear and convincing evidence,

based on subsidiary findings proved by at least a fair

preponderance of the evidence, that the parent is unfit to care

for the child and that termination is in the child's best

interests." Adoption of Arianne, 104 Mass. App. Ct. 716, 720

(2024), quoting Adoption of Xarissa, 99 Mass. App. Ct. 610, 615

(2021). "We give substantial deference to the judge's decision

to terminate parental rights 'and reverse only where the

findings of fact are clearly erroneous or where there is clear

error of law or abuse of discretion.'" Adoption of Arianne,

supra, quoting Adoption of Valentina, 97 Mass. App. Ct. 130, 137

(2020).

The mother claims error in the judge's finding of

unfitness, asserting that the judge relied on stale evidence

where, prior to trial, the mother had over two years of sobriety

and was actively addressing her anger issues. The mother also

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argues that no nexus was shown between her anger issues and her

ability to parent the child.

We are not persuaded. The record amply supports the

judge's findings, and we discern no abuse of discretion or error

of law in the judge's ultimate conclusion that the mother was

unfit, and that termination of her parental rights was in the

child's best interest. Although at the time of trial the mother

had been sober for over two years, she had a significant history

of alcohol abuse. She had also stopped taking vivitrol, a

medication which blocks the effects of opioids and alcohol,

approximately five months before trial. The judge properly

considered the mother's current sobriety in light of her long-

standing history of alcohol abuse, her multiple relapses after

long periods of sobriety, as well as her cessation of

medication-assisted treatment.

Moreover, the judge acknowledged the mother's engagement in

anger management and therapy but found that it was outweighed by

the mother's lack of insight into how her behavior harmed the

child and led to the child's removal, as well as the judge's own

observation of the mother during trial. 8 Among other things, the

judge found that the mother (1) was unable to control her

8 The mother had also stopped taking her prescribed
medications, including medication for anxiety and a mood
stabilizer, out of spite towards the department.

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behavior throughout the trial; (2) believed that the petition

was "bogus" (as written in her November 2022 motion); and (3)

showed complete disregard for the child's stated desire not to

have any contact with the mother. The judge expressed "grave

concerns" about the mother's efforts to locate the child while

in foster care (which included following a family home from

church on Christmas Eve and returning to that home on multiple

occasions thereafter), noting the mother's inability to

recognize the severity of her actions and their impact on the

child. The judge further found that the mother had demonstrated

an inability to (1) maintain stable and continuous housing; (2)

maintain consistent contact with the department; and (3)

meaningfully benefit from, or improve her parenting skills by

participating in anger management and therapy. There was no

error.

The mother also challenges a number of the judge's

subsidiary findings and conclusions of law as clearly erroneous.

We are, again, unpersuaded, as there is ample record support for

the challenged findings and conclusions, the majority of which

are based on testimony presented during the trial. 9 We see

9 For example, the judge found that the mother threatened to
kidnap the child. The judge was not required to credit the
mother's contention that she was merely venting when she made
the statement. The mother testified that she had said "stuff
like that out of anger in the past." However, there was evidence
presented that the mother went to great lengths to locate the

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nothing in the record that warrants disturbing the judge's

weighing of the evidence or her credibility determinations. 10

See Adoption of Quentin, 424 Mass. 882, 886 n.3 (1997).

2. Visitation. The mother contends that the department

improperly "terminated" her visits with the child in violation

of its own regulations, and that she was prejudiced at trial by

the lack of visitation for over four years. Again, we are not

persuaded.

There is no question that if the department seeks to

"terminate" visitation, the matter must be brought before a

judge and the judge must make a specific finding that parental

visitation will harm the child or the public welfare before

visits may be terminated. See 110 Code Mass. Regs. § 7.128

(2011). Here, however, it cannot be said that the department's

actions equated to terminating, or seeking to terminate, visits.

To the contrary, the department's actions contradicted

"termination"; the department continued to schedule visits and

to check in with the child, it encouraged the child's therapists

child's foster home and admitted, proudly, to knowing where the
child currently resides and having seen her several times in a
particular town.

10We acknowledge the accuracy of mother's challenge to
finding 168, regarding the date the child's engagement in
therapy ended. However, any error in that finding is harmless
as the mother's reasoning for filing her motion for therapeutic
visitation was not relevant to the determination of her
unfitness.

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to work with the child on her willingness to visit her mother,

and attempted to address the child's safety concerns by offering

to have a police officer present at the visits. Indeed, at the

hearing on the mother's motion, counsel for the department

confirmed that if the child requested a visit, the department

would make it happen.

The department's actions in this case contrast sharply with

the cases which have addressed actual "termination" of

visitation. In those cases, it was abundantly clear that the

department did in fact terminate visits. See Adoption of

Franklin, 99 Mass. App. Ct. 787, 796 n.14 (2021) (department

conceded that unilateral decision not to schedule any more

visits was nothing other than termination of visits); Adoption

of Linus, 73 Mass. App. Ct. 815, 817 & n.4, 822 (2009)

(department suspended visitation, primarily due to parents

bringing unsuitable snacks); Adoption of Rhona, 57 Mass. App.

Ct. 479, 489-490 (2003) (visits terminated after department

supervisor declared one visit "a circus," and told mother she

would have to go to court to reinstate visits).

Moreover, even if the department's actions could somehow be

equated to termination, reversal would not be necessary as the

mother has not demonstrated that she was prejudiced by the lack

of visits. It is clear from the record that the absence of

visitation played a minimal role in the termination of the

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mother's parental rights. See Adoption of Franklin, 99 Mass.

App. Ct. at 799 (fact that father had seen children once in over

two years played limited role in judge's finding of unfitness or

decision to terminate father's parental rights). Rather, the

judge emphasized that the mother's "mental health issues and

uncontrolled anger and emotions," the severity of which was

demonstrated by her behavior throughout the pendency of the

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petition and in the courtroom, "impair her ability to parent her

child and to look out for the best interest of her child."

Decree affirmed.

By the Court (Englander,
Hershfang & Brennan, JJ. 11),

Clerk

Entered: March 12, 2025.

11 The panelists are listed in order of seniority.

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