Greg Estes v. Sarah Young

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2014-CA-01533-COA

CONSOLIDATED WITH:

NO. 2011-CA-01451-COA

GREG ESTES AND JEFF ESTES, CO- APPELLANTS
EXECUTORS OF THE ESTATE OF JOE
HOWARD ESTES, DECEASED

v.

SARAH YOUNG ESTES APPELLEE

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 09/25/2014
TRIAL JUDGE: HON. C. MICHAEL MALSKI
COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: LEE COUNTY CHANCERY COURT
ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: T.K. MOFFETT
ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE: RHETT R. RUSSELL
NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - WILLS, TRUSTS, AND ESTATES
TRIAL COURT DISPOSITION: DETERMINED THAT APPELLEE HAD NOT
CLEARLY ABANDONED THE MARRIAGE
AND AWARDED APPELLEE A CHILD’S
SHARE OF THE INHERITANCE
DISPOSITION: REVERSED AND RENDERED - 04/19/2016
MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:
MANDATE ISSUED:

BEFORE GRIFFIS, P.J., ISHEE AND FAIR, JJ.

ISHEE, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. After a nine-month marriage between Sarah Young Estes (Young) and Joe Howard

Estes (Estes), Estes passed away testate. His will did not provide for his wife to inherit from

his estate. The record reflects that soon into the marriage, Estes experienced health

difficulties, including the amputation of one leg and surgery to clear blocked neck arteries.
Shortly thereafter, Young permanently moved back into her own separate home and filed for

divorce. After Estes died, Young contested his will since it contained no provision for her.

Initially, the Lee County Chancery Court granted Young a widow’s allowance and a child’s

share of the estate. However, on appeal, this Court reversed and rendered the widow’s

allowance and reversed and remanded the child’s-share inheritance for further analysis as to

whether Young had abandoned the marriage as a matter of law.1 On remand, the chancery

court determined that Young had not abandoned the marriage as a matter of law and again

granted her a child’s share of the inheritance. Aggrieved, Estes’s family appealed. We find

that Young had indeed abandoned the marriage. Therefore, we reverse and render the

chancery court’s judgment.

STATEMENT OF FACTS

¶2. Young and Estes married on August 3, 2006, after dating for approximately six

months. Young entered the marriage with four natural children and three grandchildren,

whom she had adopted. The grandchildren were minors at the time. Estes entered the

marriage with several grown children. After the marriage, Young’s grandchildren, the

youngest of whom was eight years old at the time of the marriage, continued to live in the

home Young had lived in prior to the marriage and which she continued to maintain after the

marriage.

¶3. Young worked as a caregiver to the sick and elderly in their respective locations. She

alternated one week of working night shifts followed by another week of working day shifts.

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In re Estate of Estes, 111 So. 3d 1223,1224-25 (¶¶1-2) (Miss. Ct. App. 2012).

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Additionally, as mentioned above, Young maintained her separate home where her

grandchildren resided. Hence, she divided her time between her work, her household where

her grandchildren lived, and Estes’s home. As noted by the chancellor, Estes and Young’s

“living arrangement was somewhat non-traditional.”

¶4. Three days after Young and Estes married, Estes entered the hospital due to a

previously sustained foot injury that would not heal. The injury quickly progressed and

eventually led to the amputation of Estes’s leg on August 17, 2006. Two months later, in

October 2006, Estes returned to the hospital for surgery to unblock arteries in his neck.

¶5. The record reveals that Estes’s brother, Tommy, as well as Tommy’s wife, son, and

daughter-in-law, provided primary care of Estes following his health complications.

Meanwhile, the record is conflicting with regard to Young’s participation in Estes’s overall

recovery. It is without question that Young’s schedule between work and caring for her

grandchildren prevented her from providing consistent care for Estes in his home. Estes’s

family also testified that Young’s visits to Estes decreased substantially after he became sick

and that she rarely came to see Estes except to drop off food on occasion. There is also

testimony from numerous witnesses reflecting that after Estes’s leg was amputated, Young

asked Estes’s family to determine how they were going to care for him because she would

not and did not have the time to care for “a cripple.”

¶6. Young, however, alleges that following Estes’s illnesses she spent the night at his

house and cooked him breakfast numerous times before her day shifts began at 7:00 a.m.

These allegations are disputed by Tommy, who stopped by Estes’s house twice a day every

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day between 6:00 and 6:30 in the morning and again between 5:00 and 5:30 in the evenings,

and only rarely saw Young present. One of Estes’s sons, Jeff, corroborated Tommy’s

testimony and further testified that by November 2006, Young had stopped going to Estes’s

house altogether.

¶7. Young’s December 2006 tax documents also indicate that she did not reside with

Estes. She defined herself as a “head of household,” asserting that she was a married person

living apart from her spouse and providing a home for her children. She further listed her

separate home as her primary home for her homestead exemption.

¶8. In November 2006, Young consulted with a doctor regarding Estes’s mental state.

On January 30, 2007, Young initiated involuntary-commitment proceedings against Estes.

She stated that he exhibited rages and threatened to physically harm her. She also said he

accused her of having an affair. Additionally, she complained that he sat in his wheelchair

wearing nothing but underwear and shot at birds in the yard through an open window in the

house.

¶9. Estes admitted that he shot at blackbirds feeding out of his squirrel feeders in the yard

and that he shot at them through an open window because it was too hard for him to get in

and out of his house.2 Furthermore, Estes explained that he often did not wear pants at home

because it felt uncomfortable on the leg where his amputation had occurred.

¶10. After a psychiatric evaluation, Estes was found to be competent with no indication of

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The closest neighbor in the direction Estes was shooting was ninety acres away, and
the record does not reflect that anyone else had ever complained of his shooting at the
blackbirds.

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any psychiatric illness or anger-management problems. The evaluation also concluded that

Estes was no danger to himself or anyone else. As such, Estes was released from psychiatric

care.

¶11. Immediately thereafter, on February 2, 2007, he sought a restraining order against

Young. Approximately one month later, on March 7, 2007, Young filed for divorce seeking

half of all of Estes’s assets, including the value of his land and his bank accounts. Young

also requested temporary and permanent restraining orders against Estes. A few weeks later,

Estes counterclaimed for divorce and also sought a restraining order. Eventually the parties

entered into a mutual restraining order. In May 2007, Estes received notice of the final

divorce hearing. The day after he received the notice, he shot and killed himself.

¶12. Estes’s will did not allow for Young to inherit anything from his estate. Young

contested the will. The trial court granted her a $12,000 widow’s allowance as well as a one-

fifth child’s share of the estate in the amount of $68,927.63. At the time, her inheritance

totaled $80,927.63.

¶13. Estes’s family appealed the trial court’s judgment. On appeal, this Court determined

that Young was not entitled to a widow’s allowance since she was living apart from Estes,

through no fault of his own, and without support from him at the time of his death. Estes,

111 So. 3d at 1227 (¶14). There, we determined: “It is undisputed that Young left Estes’s

home by her own volition after his leg was amputated. And she was living in her own home

at the time Estes died.” Id. We reversed and rendered her award of a widow’s allowance of

$12,000.

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¶14. We also remanded her award of a child’s share of the estate. We determined that a

reading of the chancellor’s order showed that he had mistakenly believed that Mississippi law

required him to provide Young with a child’s share of the estate. Id. at 1228 (¶20).

However, we ascertained that Mississippi law provides that a widow is not entitled to a

child’s share if there is “a clear desertion and abandonment” of the marriage. Id. at (¶19).

Hence, we remanded the case for a determination as to whether Young had clearly deserted

and abandoned the marriage. Id. at (¶20). We noted that the reason we did not render the

child’s-share award was because “the chancellor made no finding – let alone a finding of

clear abandonment, as required by [Mississippi law] – making remand proper, so that the

chancellor, as the fact-finder, may determine whether Young is estopped from claiming an

inheritance . . . .” Id. at n.6.

¶15. On remand, with regard to desertion and abandonment, the chancellor stated the

following:

While facts exist which show a non-traditional marriage, [Estes] knew when
the parties married that [Young] had, on a daily basis, the responsibilities of
attending to her grandchildren. Moreover, [Estes’s] behavior was at times
bizarre and the [c]ourt cannot say that [Young] willfully left and had the
intention of permanently separating from the marital relationship. Mere
absence from the home, without more, does not show willfulness.

The [c]ourt would note that [Young’s] consultation with [a psychiatric doctor]
on November 26, 2006, creates the inference that [Young] was trying to get
[Estes] help. Moreover, seeking to have [Estes] committed, on January 30,
2007, rather than filing for divorce is suggestive to the [c]ourt that [Young]
was trying to get [Estes] help and that the marriage was not over. Efforts by
a spouse to get a spouse professional help should not be used against that
spouse. Finally, the [c]ourt notes that [Estes] filed a [p]etition to restrain
[Young] on February 2, 2007, which may well have caused [Young] to seek
a divorce almost a month later.

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¶16. Accordingly, the chancellor determined that Young had not clearly deserted and

abandoned the marriage, thereby confirming her award of $68,927.63 as a child’s share of

the estate. Estes’s family now appeals the chancery court’s judgment.

DISCUSSION

¶17. An appellate court “will not disturb the findings of a chancellor when [the findings

are] supported by substantial evidence unless the chancellor abused his discretion, [or the

findings were] manifestly wrong, clearly erroneous[,] or [based on the application of an]

erroneous legal standard.” Long Meadow Homeowners’ Ass’n v. Harland, 89 So. 3d 573,

577 (¶11) (Miss. 2012) (citation omitted). Questions of law are reviewed de novo. Id.

¶18. When determining whether a spouse clearly deserted and abandoned a marriage,

Mississippi caselaw provides a spectrum of factual scenarios for comparison. Most notably,

Tillman v. Williams, 403 So. 2d 880 (Miss. 1981), serves as a benchmark case providing

guidelines for determining abandonment. In Tillman, Narvel Tillman challenged the will of

his wife, Ada Broadnex Tillman, after her death, and petitioned the trial court to recognize

him as an heir to the estate. Id. at 880. The Tillmans were married for approximately

twenty-nine years at the time of Ada’s death, but had been separated for approximately

fifteen or twenty years. Id. Neither party had made any attempt to divorce the other or

remarry. Id. Specifically, “[t]here was no evidence of any attempted remarriage or

disclaimer of the marriage by either party during the years of separation. There was no

evidence that either party attempted to secure a divorce.” Id. Ultimately, the Mississippi

Supreme Court stated: “A thorough review of the record reveals that not only was an

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abandonment uncertain, . . . [t]here was, at most, just a separation proven. As stated, there

[were] no marriage or divorce proceedings by either party . . . .” Id. at 882.

¶19. In sum, to prove desertion or abandonment in cases such as this, a clear indication that

one party is no longer committed to a marriage is necessary. While we recognize that

separation alone is not proof enough that a marriage has been abandoned, Mississippi courts

have recognized qualifying indicators to include filing for divorce, filing for remarriage, and

evidence of bigamy. See id.; Rowell v. Rowell, 170 So. 2d 267, 271-72 (Miss. 1964).

¶20. Here, it is undisputed that Young filed the first petition for divorce between the parties

in March 2007. The chancery court cited the possibility that Estes’s petition for a restraining

order against Young may have incited Young to file for divorce. The chancery court further

stated that it could not determine that Young “willfully left and had the intention of

permanently separating from the marital relationship. Mere absence from the home, without

more, does not show willfulness.”

¶21. We find the chancery court’s conclusions to be in conflict with the evidence. A

summary of the undisputed chronological series of pertinent events during the parties’ nine-

month marriage consists of the following: (1) Estes becomes ill; (2) Young slowly reduces

the amount of time spent with Estes; (3) Young attempts to involuntarily commit Estes; (4)

Estes seeks a restraining order against Young upon his release from the commitment

proceedings; (5) Young files for divorce and restraining orders; (6) Estes counterfiles for

divorce; and, (7) Estes takes his own life after receipt of notice for a final hearing on the

divorce proceedings. Regardless of any other factors present in this case, the most glaring

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evidence of Young’s abandonment of the marriage was her petition for divorce. Again, the

supreme court has clearly noted that filing for divorce serves as an indicator that a party

intends to leave the relationship. Furthermore, nothing in the record following Young’s

petition for divorce signals that the parties reconciled in any manner. Conversely, it would

appear that the parties remained estranged and set on divorcing from one another.

¶22. As such, we find that the chancery court abused its discretion in determining that

Young did not desert and abandon her marriage to Estes. In doing so, we reverse and render

the chancery court’s award to Young of a child’s share of Estes’s estate.

¶23. THE JUDGMENT OF THE LEE COUNTY CHANCERY COURT IS
REVERSED AND RENDERED. ALL COSTS OF THIS APPEAL ARE ASSESSED
TO THE APPELLEE.

LEE, C.J., IRVING AND GRIFFIS, P.JJ., BARNES, FAIR, JAMES, WILSON
AND GREENLEE, JJ., CONCUR. CARLTON, J., DISSENTS WITHOUT
SEPARATE WRITTEN OPINION.

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