A. K. B. v. J. J. G.

COURT OF APPEALS
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Appeal No. 2024AP1116 Cir. Ct. No. 2023TP4

STATE OF WISCONSIN IN COURT OF APPEALS
DISTRICT II

IN RE THE TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS TO L.N.U., A PERSON UNDER
THE AGE OF 18:

A.K.B.,

PETITIONER-RESPONDENT,

V.

J.J.G.,

RESPONDENT-APPELLANT.

APPEAL from orders of the circuit court for Racine County:
KRISTIN M. CAFFERTY, Judge. Affirmed.
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¶1 GROGAN, J.1 Jay2 appeals from an order terminating his parental
rights and an order denying his postdisposition motion. He argues the circuit court
erroneously exercised its discretion when it terminated his parental rights under
the voluntary termination statute, WIS. STAT. § 48.41, rather than applying the
hearing procedure for involuntary terminations as set forth in WIS. STAT.
§ 48.422.3 This court affirms.

I. BACKGROUND

¶2 Jay and Alice had a nonmarital child, Lisa, together in September
2015. The couple broke up in 2017, and Jay moved from their shared residence
after a domestic violence incident that resulted in Jay being arrested and Alice
obtaining a four-year restraining order prohibiting Jay from having contact with
her. The family court subsequently awarded Alice sole custody of Lisa, allowing
Jay secondary placement.4 Jay never exercised his placement, did not pay any
child support, and had no contact with Lisa. Jay ultimately moved from
Wisconsin and lived in Oregon at the time of these proceedings. In 2018, Alice
met Robert, and she and Lisa moved in with him. Robert and Alice were married
in August 2022, and Robert wanted to adopt Lisa.

1
This appeal is decided by one judge pursuant to WIS. STAT. § 752.31(2)(e) (2021-22).
All references to the Wisconsin Statutes are to the 2021-22 version unless otherwise noted.
2
For readability, this court uses pseudonyms for multiple individuals (the child, the
child’s biological/adjudicated parents, and the mother’s current husband) instead of initials.
3
In his postdisposition brief, Jay also raised an ineffective assistance of counsel claim as
an alternate ground for relief. Jay abandoned that claim by not raising it on appeal, and this court
therefore will not address it further. See A.O. Smith Corp. v. Allstate Ins. Cos., 222 Wis. 2d 475,
491-92, 588 N.W.2d 285 (Ct. App. 1998) (“[A]n issue raised in the trial court, but not raised on
appeal, is deemed abandoned.”).
4
The family court proceeding was venued in Milwaukee County.

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¶3 In February 2023, Alice filed a Petition seeking to terminate Jay’s
parental rights to Lisa because he had not had contact with Lisa for approximately
six years. The Petition indicated that Jay “may” consent to termination and listed
grounds for termination as abandonment and failure to assume parental
responsibility. See WIS. STAT. § 48.415(1), (6). In addition to the Petition, Alice
filed an ex parte motion seeking an injunction asking the circuit court to prohibit
Jay from having contact with Lisa during these proceedings. Alice attached an
affidavit stating that Jay: (1) was the adjudicated father; (2) had not had contact
with Lisa since February 2017; (3) had two domestic abuse incidents with Alice;
(4) had a drug and alcohol problem; and (5) has outstanding arrest warrants. The
court granted the injunction.

¶4 Jay was served with the Petition and accompanying paperwork in
Oregon, where he lived. In late February 2023, the state public defender’s office
(SPD) appointed Attorney Natalie Probst to represent Jay. Approximately one
week later, Probst filed a motion to withdraw. The first hearing on the Petition
occurred on March 9, 2023, and Jay appeared by Zoom from Oregon and told the
circuit court he wanted to represent himself. The entire hearing was spent on a
self-representation colloquy during which Jay repeatedly testified that he wanted
to proceed pro se. During this testimony, he admitted he was Lisa’s father.

¶5 When the circuit court asked Jay if he had read the Petition, he said
he had and that he understood Alice’s allegation that he had not had any contact
with Lisa for “quite some time[.]” The court then confirmed that Jay understood
the burden of proof (clear, satisfactory, and convincing) and that he had the right
to counsel and explained that counsel would know more about the law and legal
strategies and that representing himself would be more difficult. When asked if he
wanted to waive his right to an attorney and instead represent himself, Jay

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repeatedly responded “Yes.” The court also went through additional questions
during the counsel-waiver colloquy, including whether Jay had been pressured or
promised anything or influenced by finances in making his request. Jay indicated
he had not been and confirmed he was giving up his “right to have an attorney” of
his “own freewill.” The court pressed further as to why Jay did not want counsel,
and he said this was his preference, and it was his “own personal decision.”

¶6 After questions from the guardian ad litem (GAL), Jay appeared less
sure about self-representation. However, when the circuit court asked if he
understood that he would need to come to Racine, Wisconsin for an “in-person
trial” if he chose to contest the Petition, he confirmed that he did and that he did
not want more time to consider his decision. Attorney Probst thereafter asked the
court to adjourn the hearing so she could further discuss Jay’s self-representation
request with him. Because Jay was willing to engage in further discussion with
Probst, the court adjourned the hearing to April 26, 2023.

¶7 At the April 2023 hearing, Jay again appeared by Zoom from
Oregon. He informed the circuit court that he had changed his mind about
representing himself and explained that while he wanted to be represented by
counsel, he did not want to be represented by Attorney Probst. Probst advised that
the SPD would appoint successor counsel and continued to represent Jay through
the remainder of the hearing for the purpose of proceeding with Jay’s initial
appearance. Jay admitted he had received and reviewed the Petition, and Probst
entered “denials, preserving [Jay’s] right to trial.” Probst also confirmed that Jay
was requesting a jury trial for the factfinding hearing (grounds phase), and the
court thereafter advised Jay he would need to appear in person for the jury trial.

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¶8 The next hearing occurred on June 2, 2023, with Jay again appearing
from Oregon via Zoom. Jay’s new counsel informed the circuit court that the
matter would “most likely [be] set for trial” and that she would like the court to
schedule an additional status conference to afford counsel an opportunity to
engage in discovery. The court obliged, setting an additional status/pretrial
hearing and also scheduling the factfinding jury trial for October 10-12, 2023.
The court informed Jay he could appear by Zoom for the status/pretrial hearing but
that it expected him to appear in person at the jury trial.

¶9 At the August 28, 2023 status/pretrial hearing, the GAL sought an
order requiring Jay to submit to hair and follicle drug testing prior to the jury trial.
The circuit court noted that Alice had alleged Jay had a “severe drug and alcohol
problem” and that Jay had admitted to the GAL that he had “been to rehab for
drug problems.” The GAL had previously asked Jay to submit to drug testing in
February, and he submitted a urinalysis that showed only marijuana in his system.
After discussing costs and whether there was a facility in Oregon where Jay could
obtain a hair and follicle drug test, the court ordered Jay to submit to the drug test
“within the next seven days.”5 The court told Jay that if he encountered any
problems or difficulties in doing so, it wanted to know because it did not “want to

5
Before the hearing concluded, the GAL notified the circuit court that a quick internet
search indicated that the closest drug testing facility to where Jay lived was five hours away. The
court indicated that the process needed “to be a reasonable process for” Jay and that because Jay
“has apparently admitted this is a problem for him in the past … [he] needs to show a reasonable
effort to demonstrate his claims of sobriety as well.”

Jay filed a petition with this court seeking an interlocutory appeal challenging the circuit
court’s drug testing order. He also filed a motion in the circuit court to stay the trial until the
appeal was resolved. This court denied Jay’s petition on the drug order, and the circuit court
denied his stay request. Four days before the trial was scheduled to begin, Jay filed a motion
asking the circuit court to reconsider its drug testing order, indicating that he had attempted to
find a testing facility but the closest one was five hours away.

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put the trial off because the court has reserved the time for this jury trial.” It was
also requested that Alice provide documentation to support the averment in her
affidavit that there were outstanding warrants for Jay’s arrest.6 Before concluding
the hearing, the court again emphasized that Jay needed to “be here in person for
the jury trial.”

¶10 The next court hearing occurred on October 10, 2023—the first day
of the scheduled jury trial. Jay, however, had not travelled to Wisconsin and
instead appeared by Zoom from Oregon. Having previously informed Jay that he
was to appear in person for the jury trial, the circuit court asked him why he had
not complied with that directive. Jay’s counsel did not answer the question
directly, instead informing the court Jay was “willing to stipulate to the grounds
phase and waive jury trial” and asked the court to conduct a colloquy with Jay as
to grounds. (Emphasis added.)

¶11 Given Jay’s request and that he was appearing remotely via Zoom,
the circuit court referenced WIS. STAT. § 48.41, which addresses consent to a
voluntary termination of parental rights (TPR) and explicitly permits a party to
consent to a voluntary TPR via Zoom. The court then contrasted the process for
an involuntary TPR, noting that it did not “see any [statutory] reference to”
allowing a party to appear remotely when proceeding with an involuntary TPR.
After explaining this to the parties, the court asked Jay if he was stipulating that
grounds existed for termination and whether he was asking the court to “proceed
today[.]” Jay answered affirmatively, and the court placed Jay under oath.

6
The Record reflects that Alice filed her answers to Jay’s discovery requests after the
pretrial hearing and that in doing so, she attached documentation from the domestic abuse cases
that showed Jay was in absconder status and that also reflected that Jay had outstanding warrants.

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¶12 During his sworn testimony, Jay again admitted he was Lisa’s father,
and the court proceeded to ask the necessary questions that ensured it that Jay was
knowingly, voluntarily, and intelligently admitting that grounds existed to
terminate his parental rights. Specifically, the court went over both the
abandonment ground and the failure to assume parental responsibility ground
alleged in the Petition with Jay.7 Jay told the court he understood both grounds
and confirmed that he understood he had the right to a trial on grounds. When the
court inquired as to why he was not in the courtroom, Jay testified he did not have
sufficient funds to travel to Wisconsin. When the court asked if the lack of funds
was the “only reason” he decided not to move forward with the jury trial, Jay
answered “[a]t the time being, yes[,]” and told the court that if he had the money,
he would have come to Wisconsin and proceeded with the jury trial.

¶13 The circuit court again indicated it would “accept a voluntary
consent via zoom or via phone” but that it had concerns about using those options
for an involuntary TPR trial. (Emphasis added.) After Jay told the court that his
request to proceed by stipulating to grounds was based solely on finances, the
court allowed Jay and his counsel an additional opportunity to discuss his decision
and said it would consider another adjournment if that would allow Jay to gather
sufficient funds to appear in person. After Jay and his counsel conferred privately,
counsel asked the court for an adjournment. Alice’s counsel objected, stating that
Alice wished “to go forward today” and argued that Jay had known about the trial
date for a long time and had a significant period of time to save money to travel to

7
There was initially some confusion as to whether the Petition alleged both
abandonment under WIS. STAT. § 48.415(1) and failure to assume parental responsibility under
§ 48.415(6). All parties ultimately agreed it alleged both grounds.

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Wisconsin. Alice’s counsel also pointed out that they had a jury ready to go and
that there was no guarantee Jay would appear in person even if they rescheduled
the jury trial. The GAL agreed with Alice’s counsel and likewise did not object to
proceeding with the jury trial as planned even if Jay appeared by Zoom.

¶14 Jay’s counsel, however, continued to push for an adjournment,
arguing that Jay appearing via Zoom to the jury would be prejudicial and that
“poverty alone” should not force Jay to forego an in-person jury trial. Jay’s
counsel told the circuit court that Jay had told her that he would work diligently to
save the money and would come to Wisconsin for a rescheduled jury trial if the
court granted the adjournment. When questioned as to how an adjournment would
change his finances, Jay told the court he makes all his money for the year from
June to October and that he had used that money to travel back and forth to
welding school. He indicated, however, that he planned to apply for
unemployment and that he would then have weekly income from which he would
be able to save enough to travel.

¶15 The circuit court reluctantly adjourned the trial so that Jay could
appear in person and sternly warned him that it would not accept any additional
excuses and that it would not grant any more adjournments related to Jay’s
financial situation. The court then addressed the pending motions in limine, one
of which was a request that Jay be allowed to appear in street clothes for the trial if
he was arrested and incarcerated upon returning to Wisconsin due to an open
warrant and being in “absconder status.” The court was frustrated that this
information had not been made more clear before it decided to adjourn the trial
because these facts suggested Jay’s reason for not appearing in person for the
scheduled jury trial that day was not, as it turned out, solely due to finances.

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However, the court stood by its decision to adjourn because it had already released
the jury.

¶16 The circuit court thereafter set a new pretrial date for December 1,
2023, and the new trial date for December 19, 2023. The court again warned Jay
that it expected him to appear in person, stating: “I’m giving you the benefit of
the doubt that I will reserve additional dates but I want you to understand I have
given you your opportunity. I will not give you another opportunity to present
yourself here.” The court went on to inform Jay he was to have his travel plans in
place by the pretrial date and that he should be prepared to inform the court of his
travels plans so “that we can ideally make arrangements to deal with whatever
warrant status exists and processing and things like that so we do not have undue
delays, understood?” Jay said he understood.

¶17 Following the October hearing, the parties filed various documents
and motions leading up to the trial date. On November 9, 2023, Alice filed
certified judgments of conviction as to Jay’s domestic violence convictions. She
also filed an order from the family court case indicating Jay had absconded from
the state and that the family court had set specific conditions for Jay before he
could have any contact with Lisa—specifically, that Jay undergo a batterer’s
intervention program, attend parenting classes, and complete a mental health
evaluation.

¶18 On November 27, 2023, Jay filed a motion asking the circuit court to
order genetic testing pursuant to WIS. STAT. §§ 48.423(1) and 48.299(6).8 He

8
WISCONSIN STAT. § 48.423(1) provides:

(continued)

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argued that although he had been adjudicated Lisa’s father in August 2017, there
had been no DNA test. The GAL filed a responsive motion seeking to dismiss
Jay’s motion on the basis that there was a paternity action in Milwaukee County in
May 2017 during which Jay had signed “a voluntary paternity acknowledgment
(VPA)[.]” The GAL also pointed out that in January 2023, Jay filed a motion in
the family law case seeking to modify the underlying placement order to Lisa—
thus recently acknowledging he was the father. And, finally, the GAL argued in
his motion that § 48.423(1), the statute Jay was relying on, was inapplicable
because it applies when a person who has not yet been adjudicated as the father
comes forward claiming to be the father. Here, by contrast, Jay had been
adjudicated the father six years earlier and had repeatedly testified under oath that
he was Lisa’s father.

¶19 The circuit court began the December 1st pretrial conference by
addressing Jay’s genetic testing motion. In regard to Jay’s motion, the GAL
asserted his belief that Jay was simply seeking to delay the jury trial on grounds
yet again and wanted to make it clear for the Record that Jay “still has an

If a person appears at the hearing and claims that he is the father
of the child, the court shall set a date for a hearing on the issue of
paternity or, if all parties agree, the court may immediately
commence hearing testimony concerning the issue of paternity.
The court shall inform the person claiming to be the father of the
child of any right to counsel under s. 48.23. The person claiming
to be the father of the child must prove paternity by clear and
convincing evidence. A person who establishes his paternity of
the child under this section may further participate in the
termination of parental rights proceeding only if the person
meets the conditions specified in sub. (2) or meets a condition
specified in s. 48.42(2)(b) or (bm).

WISCONSIN STAT. § 48.299(6) addresses various hearing procedures and required actions that are
unnecessary to address further.

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outstanding warrant in the state of Wisconsin and” that he believed the outstanding
warrant was “part of the reason, aside from the financials, part of the reason he is
not returning to Wisconsin[.]” Alice’s counsel also noted “that the whole purpose
of the adjournment” at the time of the October trial was to allow Jay an
opportunity to appear in person.

¶20 After hearing from the parties, the circuit court held that the statutes
Jay relied on in his motion did not apply to his circumstances. It ruled, however,
that WIS. STAT. § 767.805(5)9 allows a father to rescind a VPA at any time if he
proves there was fraud, duress, or a mistake of fact when he signed the VPA.
Accordingly, the court stated it would allow Jay to attempt to make that showing
on the first day of trial and that if he did, it would allow genetic testing. Shortly
thereafter, however, Jay’s counsel disclosed that Jay “does not have travel
arrangements to come to [the December] trial” and that it was their “intention
today … to set this for a voluntary on the grounds and ask for a hearing on the
dispositional phase.”10 (Emphasis added.) The court asked counsel to clarify
Jay’s intentions, stating: “You’re telling me that your client wishes to forego a
jury trial and enter into a voluntary termination of parental rights but requests to
have a paternity test before going through with that?” (Emphasis added.) Counsel
responded that Jay needed to know whether he is the father before making a
decision.

9
WISCONSIN STAT. § 767.805(5)(a) provides: “A determination of paternity that arises
under this section may be voided at any time upon a motion or petition stating facts that show
fraud, duress or a mistake of fact.”
10
The term voluntary in the context of a TPR proceeding typically refers to a parent’s
agreement to voluntarily consent to the termination of his or her parental rights.

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¶21 The circuit court informed Jay and his counsel they had taken “two
different positions” during the hearing—that Jay “want[ed] to fight for his rights”
and “that he want[ed] to enter into a voluntary” termination of his rights—but that
he could not “do both[.]” (Emphasis added). The court also observed that
requesting this testing at the last minute gave it “concern about [Jay’s] intentions
here in prolonging this matter in the event that he intends to challenge” the
Petition. The court was understandably frustrated given the prolonged history of
this case. It said:

I want to protect his rights. I have afforded him an
opportunity to have a jury trial. I adjourned it once already.
I’m not inclined to adjourn it again. If he has not made
arrangements to come to the jury trial, that is on him. I
made it very clear what I expect of him. I have repeatedly
indicated that he needs to be prepared to be in Wisconsin to
have this jury trial. I have reserved the time on the court’s
calendar which I will tell you is very clogged and I have
reserved that right now twice.

The court also noted its disappointment that Jay had not yet made travel
arrangements to attend the jury trial but acknowledged that it was “not too late”
for him to do so.

¶22 After the circuit court reiterated its intent to allow Jay to prove his
WIS. STAT. § 767.805(5)(a) claim on the first day of trial, Jay’s counsel
represented that Jay was asking the court to set “this over for a voluntary and a
best interest phase” because “as of right now, he is not going to be able to make it
to Wisconsin.” (Emphasis added.) The court declined to remove the trial date
from its calendar, which it explained left Jay with three choices—show up for the
jury trial and contest grounds, be defaulted on grounds for not appearing, or enter
a “voluntary” termination of his parental rights. The court explained that Jay
knew “what has been expected” and that he “had plenty of opportunity to return to

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the state for a trial if that is how he wishes to proceed.” It then advised that if Jay
wanted to have a “best interest trial” to the court “instead of [a] TPR trial” to a
jury, he could “present whatever evidence” he wanted at that time.

¶23 The circuit court thereafter ruled that Jay would need to personally
appear for the genetic testing motion and trial in December, and after it did so,
Jay’s counsel inquired as to whether “there would be an opportunity to do a
voluntary on one of” the trial days if Jay could not be physically present.
(Emphasis added.) As it had done at an earlier hearing, the court confirmed that
the TPR statutes allow for “a voluntary termination of parental rights” to “take
place with an appearance electronically” and asked the GAL and Alice’s attorney
whether they would object to Jay’s appearance by Zoom if he decided “to have a
voluntary[.]” (Emphases added.) Both attorneys confirmed they would not object.

¶24 Jay’s counsel next sought clarification as to whether there would be
an additional pretrial before the December trial, and the circuit court said that it
would do so “[i]f the parties fe[lt] that it would be helpful to” do so. It went on to
say:

In the event there is a stipulation on the voluntary, if he
entered into a voluntary TPR, there still needs to be [a]
dispositional hearing so that will still take place, just not in
front of a jury. I would expect we have the dispositional
hearing immediately following the voluntary. There’s a lot
that needs to be decided. If you feel that it would be
helpful to have a hearing before the trial, I would
accommodate that request.

(Emphasis added.) After some discussion—which included multiple references to
proceeding with a “voluntary”—the court scheduled an additional pretrial hearing
for December 14, 2023. (Emphasis added.)

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¶25 At the December 14th final pretrial hearing, Jay again appeared by
Zoom from Oregon. The circuit court began the hearing by asking Jay what his
“position” was “moving forward,” and Jay’s counsel responded that “travel
arrangements have not been made” and that Jay was “prepared to proceed with a
voluntary on the grounds today.” (Emphasis added.) The court then asked Jay if
he was able to testify, and he responded affirmatively. When asked directly and
specifically whether he was “willing to move forward with a voluntary
termination of parental rights” that day, Jay answered, “Yes.” (Emphasis added.)
The court placed Jay under oath and confirmed there were no objections from any
of the attorneys as to “proceeding right now with a voluntary[.]” The court then
proceeded through the voluntary termination of parental rights colloquy with Jay.

¶26 As relevant, the circuit court asked Jay the following questions,
which he answered affirmatively:

 “Do you understand that if I grant your request for a voluntary
termination of parental rights, that once it’s granted, it will end
all legal relationship between you and the child?”

 “And you also understand that if I grant your request to do a
voluntary termination of parental rights, it will end all legal
relationships between your relatives and child?”

 “Do you understand that your decision to terminate your parental
right is a final decision and it cannot be changed once it has been
approved by the court and the court order is signed and filed?”

(Emphases added.) The court also asked Jay to explain “in [his] own words why
[he was] making the decision to go forward with a voluntary termination of
parental right[.]” (Emphasis added.) Jay responded: “I understand they
definitely have grounds to find me guilty, that’s why I’m asking for voluntary.”
(Emphasis added.) Jay also confirmed he understood “it would be very difficult

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and unusual for [an appellate] court to overturn a voluntary termination of
parental right and” that it was “very unlikely that an appeal would be successful in
overturning this voluntary termination of parental rights[.]” (Emphases added.)

¶27 In addition, the circuit court asked Jay if he had discussed his rights
and decision with his counsel, if he had enough time to consider the decision, if he
had any questions, and if he was comfortable and confident with this permanent
decision. Jay answered affirmatively. After confirming Jay understood his rights,
the court asked Jay if he “still wish[ed] to enter into a voluntary termination of
parental rights for [Lisa,]” and Jay responded “Yes.”

¶28 Next, the circuit court asked a series of questions to Jay’s counsel,
including whether counsel had: (1) explained to Jay “the voluntary termination of
the fact-finding phase”; (2) “gone over the consequences of a voluntary
termination” with Jay; (3) discussed with Jay “mitigating circumstances and
defenses”; and (4) gone “over all the rights that [Jay] has and is giving up by this
voluntary termination[.]” (Emphases added.) Jay’s counsel responded
affirmatively. Counsel also confirmed that she believed Jay’s decision “to enter
into a voluntary termination as opposed to contesting the allegations in the petition
and having a jury trial [was] in [Jay’s] best interests[.]”

¶29 After very thorough and complete colloquies with both Jay and his
counsel, the circuit court noted it was not necessary to obtain the GAL’s input on

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“a voluntary termination[.]”11 The GAL agreed. The court then announced its
ruling:

[B]ased on [Jay’s] testimony and the information I’ve
received from his counsel, [the court] approve[s] the
voluntary termination of parental right made by [Jay] and
the waiver of his right to contest the petition to terminate
the parental right. I will find that his voluntary termination
is being made knowingly, voluntarily and intelligently,
with a full understanding of the proceeding, the potential
consequences of the decision, the rights that are being
given up. I will accept his voluntary termination. We will
postpone the dispositional phase until December 19th at
9:00 a.m. at which time I expect we’ll receive some
additional testimony on the dispositional phase.

(Emphases added.) Before adjourning, the court asked all counsel if anything else
needed to be addressed. Jay’s counsel informed the court Jay was withdrawing his
motion for genetic testing, and the GAL withdrew his motion to add a third ground
for termination to the Petition.12

¶30 The dispositional hearing occurred as planned on December 19th.
Jay testified by Zoom from Oregon, and Alice and her husband testified in person.
Alice testified that she thought termination was in Lisa’s best interests because Jay
had not had contact with Lisa over the past six years, that Jay was a stranger to
Lisa at that point, and that Lisa, who was eight years old at the time, considered

11
The circuit court asked additional questions that are not set forth as excerpts in this
opinion as this court recounts only those parts of the colloquies pertinent to the issue raised on
appeal.
12
The circuit court also addressed an inappropriate correspondence the GAL had
received from Jay that had prompted the GAL to request that any further contact from Jay with
the GAL go through Jay’s counsel. Specifically, Jay had texted the GAL a message that said, “I
just want to personally tell you fuck you[,]” accused the GAL of not having given him a fair
shake, and suggested that Alice and Robert had bribed the GAL. The court indicated that “in
light of [Jay’s] voluntary termination of parental rights today, [it would] disregard the nature of
[Jay’s] messages and chalk them up to an emotional response.” (Emphasis added.)

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Alice’s husband, Robert, to be her father. Robert testified that Lisa is like a
daughter to him and he wanted to adopt her. He also indicated that he believed
that termination was in Lisa’s best interests because “[r]ight now she has every
stability, everything that a kid would need in her life” and that disrupting that
stability would have a negative impact on her.

¶31 Jay testified that the day Lisa was born was the “[h]appiest day of
[his] life[,]” that he left Wisconsin because he “was addicted to heroin and
cocaine” and had gone to a thirty-day outpatient program, and that he is now clean
and sober. He also confirmed he left Wisconsin while he was on probation and
that he has an outstanding warrant. Jay conceded that Lisa is happy and has a
consistent routine and good life and that while he did not want to disrupt that, he
wanted to be a part of it.

¶32 The GAL advised the circuit court that Lisa wished to have Robert
adopt her and that she had told the GAL that Robert was her father.

¶33 In its oral decision, the circuit court first emphasized that there had
been a “voluntary termination of parental rights” during the grounds phase.
(Emphasis added.) Next, the court noted that the current hearing was focused on
the dispositional phase only, and it therefore needed to address the statutory
factors set forth in WIS. STAT. § 48.426. In addressing those factors, the court
found “there is a very high likelihood of adoption if the Court grants the
termination of parental rights.” It further found Robert’s testimony “very
compelling” in regard to the “very significant and father like relationship” he had
developed with Lisa. The court also considered Lisa’s age, noting that she was
two years old when Jay left Wisconsin and that it was “unlikely” she had any
memory of him. It also found that Lisa was healthy and doing well in school.

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¶34 In addressing whether Lisa had a substantial relationship with Jay
and the effect of severing their relationship, the circuit court acknowledged that
severing any parental relationship would cause “some harm.” However, it found
“the harm that [Lisa] will incur in severing her [relationship with her] biological
[father] will be substantially outweighed by the relationship that she has formed
with [Robert] and will continue to have with [Robert’s] family.” On that factor,
the court continued:

it is significantly better for her at this phase of her life to
have the daily contact with a person that she trusts and who
presides as her father on a day to day bas[i]s than it would
be for her to have occasional contact with a father who
lives in [Oregon] far, far away. He has not regularly or
consistently had contact with her over the last six years.…
[Jay] did not present testimony that despite knowing about
the birth of [Lisa] that his family had made any attempts to
sustain important familial relationship during his period of
crisis and during his period of time where he was
undergoing treatment for his addiction issues. So there is
no evidence in the record there is any familial relationship
between anyone in [Jay’s] family and this child.

(Formatting altered.)13

¶35 Based on the foregoing, the circuit court found that there was “no
substantial relationship between” Lisa and Jay “at this time.” It also noted Lisa’s
wishes—with the caveat that she was eight years old and that her wishes could
change—and noted that if Lisa’s wishes do change, she may reach out to Jay once
she is eighteen years old. The court also addressed Lisa’s character and conduct
and found that she is stable, happy, and has a good relationship with Robert and

13
Jay interrupted while the circuit court was talking, and when the court asked Jay to let
it finish, Jay responded: “You are taking from me. I want to say whatever the fuck I want.” The
court warned Jay that it would mute him if he continued “to disrupt [the] proceedings[.]”

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that she wanted Robert to adopt her. Additionally, the court acknowledged that
Jay’s lack of contact with Lisa over the previous six years had been due at least in
part to Jay’s focus on overcoming his addictions. It explained, however, that even
when seeking to overcome an addiction, a parent can still communicate with a
child via letters or other family members even when physical contact may not be
an available option. Jay, it noted, did not do so.14

¶36 The final factor the circuit court considered was whether Lisa would
“enter into a more stable permanent family relationship” if it terminated Jay’s
parental rights, and it found that she would. In reaching this conclusion, the court
commented that Robert had taken on “the obligation of being a father figure to”
Lisa for many years and that this demonstrated Robert’s “character and what a
wonderful father he will be to [Lisa] as part of an adoption process in the future.”

¶37 Accordingly, the circuit court held that “it has definitely been proven
it is in this child’s best interests to sever the relationship with her biological
father.” Following the hearing, the court entered an order terminating Jay’s
parental rights.15

14
During these comments, Jay again interrupted, causing the circuit court to mute him,
but he “hung up” and left the hearing. The court noted that after Jay left the hearing, he never
rejoined the Zoom session.

The GAL advised the court, however, that Jay had just messaged him saying “he will be
seeing me” and that the GAL wanted “to put that on the record today in case anything were to
occur.” Jay’s counsel immediately responded that Jay’s message was “not a real threat of any
sort” and that he was just upset and “charged with emotion.” This court notes that even when
“charged with emotion[,]” making threatening statements and swearing at the circuit court is
unacceptable and inappropriate conduct.
15
Because the grounds phase proceeded as a “voluntary” termination of Jay’s parental
rights, the circuit court issued the TPR order used for voluntary TPR proceedings.

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¶38 In July 2024, Jay filed a postdisposition motion seeking to vacate the
TPR order on the basis that the circuit court did not conduct a proper colloquy
during the grounds phase. Specifically, Jay argued he did not agree to consent to a
voluntary termination of his parental rights on December 14th but rather that he
had agreed to stipulate that grounds existed to find him unfit and that he wanted to
continue his contested posture at the dispositional hearing. The court held a
hearing on the motion and noted the following. First, it noted that Jay had
appeared by Zoom on December 14, 2023, at what was supposed to be the final
pretrial for a December 19th in-person contested jury trial on grounds and that
instead of providing the court with his travel plans as it had previously directed
him to do, Jay informed the court he would not be coming and wanted to do a
“voluntary.” Next, the court noted that it had proceeded with the voluntary TPR
and that it allowed Jay to present evidence at the dispositional phase and to argue
that terminating his parental rights was not in Lisa’s best interests.

¶39 The circuit court also recounted that it had discussed its belief that
Jay was proceeding with a voluntary TPR under WIS. STAT. § 48.41, not WIS.
STAT. § 48.422, with the attorneys and that there had been no objections to the
court proceeding under § 48.41. The court explained that it had not taken a plea
because the procedure for a voluntary TPR does not so require. It further
explained that parents sometimes choose to consent to a voluntary TPR because
unlike in an involuntary TPR proceeding, the court is not required to make a
finding that a parent is unfit, which is advantageous because once a parent is found
unfit, it may affect parental rights to future children.

¶40 Jay’s appellate counsel conceded that if the December 14th hearing
was governed under WIS. STAT. § 48.41, the circuit court followed the proper
procedure. Counsel argued, however, that Jay did not intend to consent to a

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voluntary termination of his parental rights because he wanted to contest the
Petition at disposition. The court denied Jay’s motion, and Jay appeals.

II. DISCUSSION

¶41 The Wisconsin Statutes provide for both the voluntary and
involuntary termination of parental rights. See WIS. STAT. §§ 48.41 and 48.415.
The issue in this case is whether the circuit court erroneously exercised its
discretion when it terminated Jay’s parental rights by following the procedures set
forth in § 48.41, which governs the procedures for a voluntary TPR, rather than
those set forth in WIS. STAT. § 48.422, which governs the procedure for an
involuntary TPR. This court will not set aside the circuit court’s factual findings
unless they are clearly erroneous, and this court affirms a circuit court’s decision if
it considered the pertinent facts, applied the correct law, and demonstrated a
rational process in making its decision. See Gerald O. v. Cindy R., 203 Wis. 2d
148, 152-53, 551 N.W.2d 855 (Ct. App. 1996).

¶42 Jay asserts on appeal that the circuit court erred by following the
procedures for a voluntary TPR as set forth in WIS. STAT. § 48.41 rather than those
set forth in WIS. STAT. § 48.422 in regard to an involuntary TPR because he says it
was clear that he intended to oppose disposition and thus remained in an
involuntary TPR posture. In other words, Jay says that because he intended to
oppose the termination of his parental rights at disposition, he did not agree to
proceed under the voluntary TPR statute. A thorough review of the Record belies
Jay’s argument.

¶43 At the outset, this court notes that Jay undoubtedly began these
proceedings in a contested or involuntary TPR posture. However, as is evident
from the numerous transcript excerpts from various hearings set forth above, that

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posture clearly evolved over the course of these proceedings. Specifically, the
evolution of Jay’s intentions can be clearly seen in his repeated failure to travel to
Wisconsin for the scheduled jury trial on grounds despite the circuit court having
warned him on multiple occasions—spanning multiple hearings over many
months—that he was required to be physically present for the jury trial and that
remaining in the involuntary posture would ultimately require his physical
presence. After these repeated reminders and admonitions, which included the
circuit court informing Jay at the December 1st hearing that he had three
choices—appear in person on December 14th for the jury trial, be defaulted if he
failed to appear, or appear by Zoom and agree to enter a voluntary termination of
his parental rights—Jay ultimately informed the circuit court at the December 14th
hearing that he wished to proceed with a “voluntary.” Notably, Jay, as he had
done throughout the pendency of this matter, appeared via Zoom for the
December 14th hearing at which he informed the circuit court of his decision to
proceed with the “voluntary.”

¶44 Importantly, by the time Jay informed the circuit court that he
wished to proceed with a “voluntary,” the circuit court had repeatedly referenced
WIS. STAT. § 48.41, the voluntary TPR statute, due to Jay’s repeated appearances
via Zoom, and it had likewise repeatedly explained that it could accept a voluntary
consent to terminate his rights via Zoom, but Jay would need to be in person to
proceed with an involuntary TPR.16 The Record demonstrates that no party—

16
This court is aware of one precedential case where a parent appeared by “webcam” for
an involuntary grounds trial. See Waukesha Cnty. DHHS v. Teodoro E., 2008 WI App 16, ¶9,
307 Wis. 2d 372, 745 N.W.2d 701. However, that case is distinguishable in that the parties in
that case used webcams because the father had been deported and it was impossible for him to
return to the United States for the grounds trial. Id., ¶¶5, 16.

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including Jay—ever objected to the circuit court’s references to the voluntary
termination of parental rights and § 48.41. And, when the circuit court proceeded
with the voluntary termination under § 48.41, Jay repeatedly confirmed that that
was what he wanted to do, and his counsel never objected or otherwise sought to
clarify with the court that Jay actually wished to remain in an involuntary TPR
posture.

¶45 That Jay was aware of the distinction between proceeding with a
voluntary TPR and stipulating to grounds under the involuntary TPR procedure is
further evident given that his counsel, at the October 10th hearing, initially
informed the court that Jay was “willing to stipulate to the grounds phase[.]”
(Emphasis added.) However, at subsequent hearings, Jay’s counsel, like the
circuit court, instead repeatedly used the word “voluntary,” thus demonstrating an
understanding that Jay’s posture had evolved. In light of the repeated use of the
word “voluntary” in reference to the termination of Jay’s parental rights, Jay’s
postdisposition claim that he was not proceeding with a voluntary termination of
his parental rights despite having informed the circuit court that he wished to
proceed with a voluntary and then testifying that he consented to a “voluntary
termination of parental rights” is disingenuous.17 (Emphasis added.) This court
therefore concludes that the circuit court did not err in proceeding with a voluntary
termination of Jay’s parental rights.

17
Equally disingenuous is Jay’s assertion that “he would not have entered the
‘voluntary’ if he fully understood what it meant” given that he also acknowledges that “[i]t was
clear that [he] was interested in admitting to grounds for TPR” and then “contesting at disposition
that” termination his parental rights was not in Lisa’s “best interest.” The latter procedure would
have accomplished functionally the same result, except that Jay would have a permanent finding
on the Record that he is an unfit parent.

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¶46 Jay’s appellate counsel conceded during the postdisposition hearing
that the circuit court followed the correct procedure as set forth in WIS. STAT.
§ 48.41 if Jay truly had agreed to voluntarily consent to the termination of his
parental rights. Despite this concession, this court has nevertheless reviewed the
circuit court’s actions and concludes that it did not err.

¶47 Where a parent elects to voluntarily consent to the termination of
parental rights, WIS. STAT. § 48.41(2)(a) directs that the circuit court “may accept
the [voluntary] consent only after the judge has explained the effect of termination
of parental rights and has questioned the parent, or has permitted an attorney who
represents any of the parties to question the parent, and is satisfied that the consent
is informed and voluntary.” In T.M.F. v. Children’s Service Society of
Wisconsin, 112 Wis. 2d 180, 196-97, 332 N.W.2d 293 (1983), our supreme court
identified the basic information a circuit court must ascertain in determining
whether the parent’s consent to termination of parental rights is informed and
voluntary:

1. [T]he extent of the parent’s education and the parent’s
level of general comprehension;

2. [T]he parent’s understanding of the nature of the
proceedings and the consequences of termination, including
the finality of the parent’s decision and the circuit court’s
order;

3. [T]he parent’s understanding of the role of the guardian
ad litem (if the parent is a minor) and the parent’s
understanding of the right to retain counsel at the parent’s
expense;

4. [T]he extent and nature of the parent’s communication
with the guardian ad litem, the social worker, or any other
advisor;

5. [W]hether any promises or threats have been made to
the parent in connection with the termination of parental
rights;

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6. [W]hether the parent is aware of the significant
alternatives to termination and what those are.

Id. Having reviewed the Record, it is clear that the circuit court complied with
these requirements.

¶48 “Once a trial court is satisfied that the consent is voluntary,” it
proceeds to the dispositional hearing to determine whether termination of the
parent’s parental rights is in the child’s best interests. A.B. v. P.B., 151 Wis. 2d
312, 319, 444 N.W.2d 415 (Ct. App. 1989). The dispositional phase occurs
regardless of whether the parent consents to a voluntary TPR or contests an
involuntary TPR. See WIS. STAT. § 48.41(1) (after a parent voluntarily consents to
the termination of parental rights, “the judge may proceed immediately to a
disposition of the matter after considering the standard and factors specified in
s. 48.426”); WIS. STAT. § 48.424(4) (where “grounds for the termination of
parental rights are found by the court or jury, the court shall find the parent
unfit[,]” and the dispositional hearing shall follow thereafter). At the disposition
hearing in this matter, the circuit court thoroughly addressed the required statutory
factors and determined it was in Lisa’s best interests to terminate Jay’s parental
rights. Having reviewed the Record, this court concludes that the circuit court’s
decision was not an erroneous exercise of discretion.

¶49 Even if this court could ignore the repeated transcript references that
plainly show that Jay was proceeding with a voluntary termination of his rights,
there is no merit to Jay’s argument asking for reversal because it is clear that he
was not prejudiced. As our supreme court has held, if a parent is not prejudiced by
error in the proceedings in the circuit court, he is not entitled to a do-over. See
Steven V. v. Kelley H., 2003 WI App 110, ¶¶24-25, 263 Wis. 2d 241, 663 N.W.2d
817, aff’d on other grounds, 2004 WI 47, 271 Wis. 2d 1, 678 N.W.2d 856

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(recognizing two supreme court cases that have used a harmless error analysis in
TPR proceedings).

¶50 Here, there is no reasonable likelihood that reversing the orders in
this case and remanding for an involuntary, contested TPR would result in a
different outcome. It was undisputed that Jay abandoned Lisa as that term is
defined in the statute, and there is simply no likelihood of success at the grounds
phase as he has already testified under oath that grounds existed to terminate his
parental rights. And, the circuit court’s findings at the dispositional phase would
not change even if this court reversed and remanded—Lisa would still not have a
substantial relationship with Jay, she would still not have any memory of him, she
would still see Robert as her father, and it would still be in her best interests to
terminate so she could be adopted and remain in a stable, safe, and permanent,
happy home.

¶51 Jay claims he did not want to voluntarily terminate his parental
rights but rather wanted to stipulate that grounds existed but still argue against
termination at the dispositional phase. Jay suggests that a parent who consents to
a voluntary termination of parental rights pursuant to WIS. STAT. § 48.41 is not
entitled to oppose termination at disposition. Assuming without deciding that that
is typically the case,18 the circuit court here nevertheless chose to allow him to
participate at the disposition hearing even though the Record shows that he
voluntarily terminated his parental rights. In essence, Jay received exactly what he
wanted—an opportunity to try to convince the court that it was in Lisa’s best

18
While some voluntary TPR proceedings both begin and end as voluntary proceedings,
others, such as the TPR here, begin in an involuntary posture but ultimately conclude as a
voluntary TPR.

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interests to not terminate his parental rights. Jay not only participated at the
dispositional hearing by testifying and cross-examining witnesses but also argued
that it was not in Lisa’s best interests to terminate his parental rights. To wit, in
Jay’s closing argument, Jay’s counsel argued that Alice had “suspiciously” filed
the Petition seeking to terminate his rights “less than a month” after he had “filed
for placement and custody” in the family law matter and that it “is not in the best
interests of [Lisa] to terminate [Jay’s] parental rights.” Based on all of the facts
and circumstances in this case, even if any error occurred, it was harmless.

By the Court.—Orders affirmed.

This opinion will not be published. See WIS. STAT.
RULE 809.23(1)(b)4.

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