In re the Marriage of Barry

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 17-1973
Filed December 19, 2018

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF CHAD E. BARRY
AND KATHLEEN M. BARRY

Upon the Petition of
CHAD E. BARRY,
Petitioner-Appellant,

And Concerning
KATHLEEN M. BARRY, n/k/a KATHLEEN M. KRAMER,
Respondent-Appellee.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Harrison County, Gregory W. Steensland,

Judge.

A father appeals from the denial of his petition to modify the custodial and physical

care provisions of his dissolution decree. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.

P. Shawn McCann of McGinn, Springer & Noethe, P.L.C., Council Bluffs, for

appellant.

Drew H. Kouris, Council Bluffs, for appellee.

Heard by Vogel, P.J., and Vaitheswaran and McDonald, JJ.
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McDONALD, Judge.

This appeal arises out of Chad Barry’s petition to modify the decree dissolving his

marriage to Kathleen Barry, now known as Kathleen Kramer. At issue on appeal is the

district court’s denial of the petition to modify the custodial provisions of the decree, the

district court’s dismissal of Chad’s application for contempt, and the district court’s

allocation of responsibility for certain debt and medical expenses.

I.

The record reflects the following. Chad and Kathleen married in 2007. They had

two children together: BB boy, born in 2007, and BB girl, born in 2010.

Chad and Kathleen had a tumultuous relationship from the outset. They filed for

dissolution of the marriage in 2009 before reconciling. The parties sought dissolution of

the marriage again in 2012. The proceeding was long and arduous. The district court

described the animosity between Chad and Kathleen as “one of the most intense it ha[d]

ever seen” and noted “that animosity toward each other has not served either of them

well.” The dissolution was final in May 2014. The district court granted the parents joint

legal custody of the children, awarded Kathleen physical care of the children, and

provided Chad with visitation. The decree contained the following guidance: “Both

Kathleen and Chad need to clean up their act and start making decisions for their children

and not for themselves or other vindictive purposes.”

The district court’s guidance was not heeded; the positive feedback loop of anger

and litigation had commenced. Not long after the entry of the decree, both parties filed

applications for rule to show cause. In 2015, Chad filed a petition for modification. In his

petition, Chad requested physical care of the children, alleging Kathleen failed to keep
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him informed of the children’s activities, failed to consult him regarding medical issues,

and refused phone calls between Chad and the children. The district court, already

familiar with this family from the prior dissolution and contempt proceedings, found no

material and substantial change in circumstances justifying modification. The district

court concluded: “The evidence presented in this modification action doesn’t really

present anything new to this court. It is just further evidence on the continuing saga of

utter distrust between Kathleen and Chad.” The decree provided: “If these two parties

don’t get past their complete distrust of each other, they will not be the ones to suffer.

The ones to suffer will be their children.”

The district court proved prescient. Shortly after the district court denied the prior

modification petition, Chad filed the present modification action. In his petition, Chad

requested sole legal custody and physical care of the children, alleging Kathleen sought

to alienate him from the children. Kathleen requested that Chad be held responsible for

unpaid federal taxes and she be held harmless for the same. She also sought

reimbursement for one half of certain unpaid medical expenses for the children. The

matter proceeded to trial along with several contempt claims. Upon consideration of the

evidence, the court characterized the most recent case as “part of the ongoing saga

between these parties.” The district court denied the petition for modification. It found

and concluded there was no material and substantial change in circumstances warranting

modification and no campaign of alienation. The court declined to find Kathleen in

contempt of court. The district court ordered Chad hold Kathleen harmless for unpaid

2011 taxes. The district court concluded Chad should be responsible for half of the

children’s unpaid medical bills in the amount of $3971.52. Chad filed this timely appeal.
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II.

Modification actions are reviewed de novo. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.907; In re

Marriage of Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d 26, 32 (Iowa 2015) (noting modification actions lie in

equity). Prior cases have little precedential value; instead the relevant law is applied to

the unique facts and circumstances of each case. See In re Marriage of Kleist, 538

N.W.2d 273, 276 (Iowa 1995); In re Marriage of Snowden, No. 14-1920, 2015 WL

4233449, at *1 (Iowa Ct. App. July 9, 2015). Although review is de novo, appellate courts

“afford deference to the district court for institutional and pragmatic reasons.” Hensch v.

Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822, 824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017); see In re P.C., No. 16-0893, 2016

WL 4379580, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Aug. 17, 2016). “[T]he district court ‘has reasonable

discretion in determining whether modification is warranted and that discretion will not be

disturbed on appeal unless there is a failure to do equity.’” In re Marriage of McKenzie,

709 N.W.2d 528, 531 (Iowa 2006) (quoting In re Marriage of Walters, 575 N.W.2d 739,

741 (Iowa 1998)).

III.

A.

“The general principles guiding . . . adjudication of petitions for modification of

dissolution decrees are well-established.” Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d at 32.

To change a custodial provision of a dissolution decree, the applying party
must establish by a preponderance of evidence that conditions since the
decree was entered have so materially and substantially changed that the
children’s best interests make it expedient to make the requested change.
The changed circumstances must not have been contemplated by the court
when the decree was entered, and they must be more or less permanent,
not temporary. They must relate to the welfare of the children. A parent
seeking to take custody from the other must prove an ability to minister more
effectively to the children’s well being.
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In re Marriage of Frederici, 338 N.W.2d 156, 158 (Iowa 1983). “The burden on the party

seeking modification is a heavy one.” In re Marriage of Morrison, No. 16-0886, 2017 WL

936152, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Mar. 8, 2017). The physical care provisions of a decree are

not often disturbed because “once custody of children has been fixed it should be

disturbed only for the most cogent reasons.” Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d at 32. Ultimately,

when reaching a conclusion, “[t]he children’s best interest is the controlling consideration.”

Id.; see Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166-67 (Iowa 1974) (listing factors to

consider when reaching a best-interest determination).

On de novo review, we see no reason to disturb the district court’s ruling with

respect to the custody and care determination. The parties make serious accusations

and counter-accusations against each other. There is no reason to spread them on the

public record. The district court judge who presided over this modification action is the

same judge who has presided over all proceedings in this ongoing case. The judge was

best situated to make credibility determinations and understand what changes, if any,

occurred between the time of the prior modification action and this action. We defer to

those findings and determinations. See P.C., 2016 WL 4379580, at *2 (“There are other,

less questionable reasons to exercise ‘de novo review with deference,’ including: notions

of judicial comity and respect; recognition of the appellate court’s limited function of

maintaining the uniformity of legal doctrine; recognition of the district court’s more intimate

knowledge of and familiarity with the parties, the lawyers, and the facts of a case; and

recognition there are often undercurrents in a case—not of record and available for

appellate review—the district court does and should take into account when making a

decision.”).
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Even if we were to afford the district court no institutional deference, review of the

record demonstrates there has been no material and substantial change in

circumstances. The parents’ relationship is the same now as it has been—dysfunctional.

The ongoing dysfunction of these parents and their continued inability to place their

children first does not constitute a change in circumstances sufficient to warrant the

custody and care provisions of the decree. See Schmidt v. Quinn, No. 18-0056, 2018

WL 4361059, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Sept. 12, 2018) (concluding a continuation of poor

communication and animosity between parents does not represent a change in

circumstance warranting modification).

We affirm the district court’s order denying Chad’s petition to modify the legal

custody and physical care provisions of the decree.

B.

We next address Chad’s claim the district court erred in denying his numerous

applications to hold Kathleen in contempt of court.

“[C]ontempt proceeding[s] [are] essentially criminal in nature” requiring each

element be “established beyond a reasonable doubt.” In re Marriage of Ruden, 509

N.W.2d 494, 496 (Iowa Ct. App. 1993). Contempt may be characterized as willful

disobedience. Ary v. Dist. Ct., 735 N.W.2d 621, 624 (Iowa 2007). Even when contempt

may be demonstrated, the trial court is not required to hold a party in contempt. See Iowa

Code § 598.23(1) (2106) (noting a “person may be cited and punished by the court for

contempt” (emphasis added)); In re Marriage of Swan, 526 N.W.2d 320, 327 (Iowa 1995).

On de novo review, we conclude Chad failed to prove beyond a reasonable doubt

that Kathleen’s conduct amounted to willful violations of the dissolution decree.
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C.

Finally, we address the district court’s ruling regarding Chad’s responsibility for

certain debts, unpaid tax obligations, and certain medical expenses.

The first category of disputed expenses relates to debts acquired during the course

of the marriage. The district court held Chad shall be responsible for certain bills a

collection agency was attempting to collect from Kathleen. The parties did not provide a

great amount of detail regarding these bills. At trial, Kathleen testified the uncollected

debt was for pre-dissolution medical expenses. Chad seems to agree with this

characterization. The district court also held Chad shall be responsible for and hold

Kathleen harmless for tax obligations for tax year 2011.

Chad contests his responsibility for the obligations. His claims are without merit.

The dissolution decree provided: “Kathleen shall be responsible for the debt to her

parents. Chad shall be responsible for the debt to Kysa Krohnke and any other debt

acquired by the parties during the course of their marriage that remains outstanding on

the date of this Decree.” Under the plain language of the decree, Chad is responsible for

any pre-dissolution debts other than those due to Kathleen’s parents. See In re Marriage

of Ruter, 564 N.W.2d 849, 851 (Iowa Ct. App. 1997) (noting interpretation of a dissolution

decree should give effect to the express and implied intent of the decretal court). While

the debts litigated in this case were not specifically identified in the decree, they fall within

the category of pre-dissolution debts for which Chad has been assigned sole

responsibility. The district court did not err.
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The second category of disputed expenses is the division of post-dissolution

medical expenses for the children. Chad challenges his obligation for half of a therapy

bill and half of the bills associated with CHI health providers.

Chad’s challenge to these expenses has merit. The dissolution decree provided:

“The parties shall each pay 50% of the uncovered medical expenses . . . . Each shall

provide notice to the other of uncovered medical expenses within 15 days after receiving

notice of the amount due.” We interpret this provision of the decree to require a parent

notify the other of the amount due within fifteen days of receipt of notice of the amount

before the other parent is required to pay one half of the amount due. See id. (noting

interpretation of a decree should seek “to give effect to ‘that which is both expressed and

implied’” (quoting Bowman v. Bennett, 250 N.W.2d 47, 50 (Iowa 1977))). Here, Kathleen

admitted into evidence bills showing unpaid medical expenses for the children. However,

Kathleen provided no evidence that she provided Chad with timely notice of the amounts

due for certain bills. In particular, Kathleen did not provide timely notice for the therapy

bill; Chad is thus not responsible for one half of the $2115.00 due. With respect to the

CHI bills, Chad is not responsible for one half of the following: the CHI-Logan bill for

$77.00; the Logan Clinic bill for $119.20; the Logan Clinic bill for $52.04; the Children’s

Physicians bill for $74.53; the Children’s Physicians bill for $116.44; or the Children’s

Physicians bill for $46.07. After omitting these expenses, we reduce Chad’s obligation to

$2671.38.

IV.

Finally, we address attorney fees. Chad contends the district court abused its

discretion when refusing to award him trial attorney fees. See In re Marriage of Francis,
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442 N.W.2d 59, 67 (Iowa 1989) (stating trial attorney fee awards are reviewed for an

abuse of discretion). “The court has considerable discretion in awarding attorney fees.”

In re Marriage of Schenkelberg, 824 N.W.2d 481, 488 (Iowa 2012). Upon review of the

record, we conclude the district court did not err in refusing to award Chad trial attorney

fees.

Both parties request appellate attorney fees. “Appellate attorney fees are not a

matter of right, but rather rest in this court’s discretion.” See In re Marriage of McDermott,

827 N.W.2d 671, 687 (Iowa 2013) (quoting In re Marriage of Okland, 699 N.W.2d 260,

270 (Iowa 2005)). “In determining whether to award appellate attorney fees, we consider

‘the needs of the party seeking the award, the ability of the other party to pay, and the

relative merits of the appeal.’” Id. (quoting Okland, 699 N.W.2d at 270). After considering

the relevant factors, we decline to award either party appellate attorney fees.

V.

We have considered each of the parties’ arguments, whether discussed in full

herein. We conclude the district court did not err in refusing to modify physical care and

legal custody of the children. With respect to the 2011 tax debt, we conclude it amounts

to an outstanding pre-dissolution debt, which the decree dictates is Chad’s obligation.

The court did not err in ordering Chad to hold Kathleen harmless for the 2011 tax debt.

Additionally, the collection agency’s bills relate to pre-dissolution debt, which is Chad’s

obligation. The court did not err in ordering Chad pay half of this pre-dissolution debt.

However, we find the district court erred in ordering Chad pay one half of the challenged

post-dissolution expenses without a showing that Kathleen notified Chad of the expenses
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within fifteen days of receiving notice herself. We reduce Chad’s obligation for the

presented expenses to $2671.38.

AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.