H.M. v. M.S.

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n.4 (2008).

COMMONWEALTH OF MASSACHUSETTS

APPEALS COURT

23-P-1260

H.M.

vs.

M.S.

MEMORANDUM AND ORDER PURSUANT TO RULE 23.0

The defendant appeals from the extension of an abuse

prevention order issued pursuant to G. L. c. 209A, § 3 (209A

order), and from the denial of his motion for reconsideration.

Concluding that the extension order was not supported by

evidence that the defendant placed the plaintiff in reasonable

fear of imminent serious physical harm, we vacate the extension

order dated August 29, 2023.

Background. The plaintiff1 dated the defendant for about

two months in 2023 before deciding to end the relationship. The

defendant's immediate response to the breakup caused the

1The plaintiff did not file a brief or otherwise
participate in the appeal, as is her right.
plaintiff to seek a 209A order against him on August 15, 2023.

In an affidavit supporting her 209A complaint, the plaintiff

described how she had received, in the three days prior to her

application for the 209A order, over 200 phone calls (on her

personal phone and at her place of employment) or text messages

from the defendant. In some of these calls or messages, the

defendant reportedly called the victim names, threatened to hurt

himself, and expressed his intention to appear uninvited at her

or her parents' house. The plaintiff described the defendant's

contacts as "emotionally abusive." A judge, after an ex parte

hearing, issued a temporary 209A order that included a provision

specifying no contact2 with the plaintiff.3 The judge scheduled

a two-party hearing for August 29. On August 19, the police

arrested the defendant for calling and sending text messages to

the plaintiff in violation of the order's no-contact provision.

Both parties appeared at the two-party hearing; the

plaintiff was pro se, while the defendant was represented by

counsel. During this hearing, the plaintiff, consistent with

the contents of her affidavit, testified to the defendant's

2 The no-contact order provided, in pertinent part: "YOU
ARE ORDERED NOT TO CONTACT THE PLAINTIFF in person, by
telephone, in writing, electronically, or otherwise, . . . and
to stay at least 100 yards from the Plaintiff."

3 The police served the order on the defendant on August 17.
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incessant telephone and text message contact that followed their

breakup. However, in response to the judge's questions, she

stated that the defendant had never harmed her or threatened to

harm her physically. Rather, she described the defendant as

"erratic," and said that he threatened to hurt himself and to

show up uninvited to her house or to her parents' house.4 Then,

in response to the judge's direct question about whether the

plaintiff was in fear of her personal safety, she answered "Yes.

I just don't know what he's going to do."5

After the plaintiff finished addressing the court, the

judge allowed the defendant's attorney to commence cross-

examination. However, a short while after the questioning

began, the judge interrupted counsel's examination and asked,

"With an open charge of violating this order with [the

plaintiff], why would I not continue this order to maintain the

status quo while that [criminal] case takes its course through

the system? Why wouldn't I do that?" Counsel responded, in

pertinent part, by stating, "my client has never threated [the

4 None of the text messages were introduced in evidence.

5 Although the plaintiff stated that the defendant never
previously threatened to physically harm her, she cited one
incident, early in the relationship, where she was alarmed by
how the defendant suddenly snatched her minor child out of her
hands.
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plaintiff] in any way. He's never physically harmed her; he's

never put her in any situation to be in fear of serious physical

harm, which as the Court knows, is the standard under 209A."

The judge replied, "But his conduct has been a bit erratic

toward her since [the breakup]. Who calls somebody 200 times?

Who calls someone's employment 15 times?" The judge then

extended the 209A order for six months. The defendant filed a

timely motion for reconsideration, which was denied by the

judge.

Discussion. We review the extension of a 209A order "for

an abuse of discretion or other error of law." Constance C. v.

Raymond R., 101 Mass. App. Ct. 390, 394 (2022), quoting E.C.O.

v. Compton, 464 Mass. 558, 562 (2013).

"Under G. L. c. 209A, § 3, a person 'suffering from abuse'
. . . may initiate an action 'requesting protection from
such abuse' in the form of a court order requiring the
defendant to refrain from abusing or contacting the victim,
among other remedies. 'Abuse' is defined by the statute as
'the occurrence of one or more of the following acts
between family or household members: (a) attempting to
cause or causing physical harm; (b) placing another in fear
of imminent serious physical harm; [or] (c) causing another
to engage involuntarily in sexual relations by force,
threat or duress'" (citation omitted).6

6 At the time the plaintiff applied for this order, the
definition of abuse did not include "coercive control." See
G. L. c. 209A, § 1 (d), as amended by St. 2024, c. 118, § 4. We
note that our conclusion in this case would be the same if the
definition of abuse had included coercive control when the
plaintiff sought protection.
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Yahna Y. v. Sylvester S., 97 Mass. App. Ct. 184, 186 (2020). In

determining whether the plaintiff has proved that the

defendant's conduct caused her to fear "imminent serious

physical harm" -- the only form of abuse at issue in this case -

- the plaintiff must show both that she is currently in fear of

imminent serious physical harm, and that her fear is reasonable.

Id. We "look to the actions and words of the defendant in light

of the attendant circumstances" to determine whether the

plaintiff proved that her fear was reasonable. Vittone v.

Clairmont, 64 Mass. App. Ct. 479, 485-486 (2005), quoting

Commonwealth v. Gordon, 407 Mass. 340, 349 (1990).

We agree with the defendant that the plaintiff did not meet

her burden. The plaintiff presented no evidence that the

defendant ever threatened her, either directly or indirectly,

with physical harm. Instead, the plaintiff presented evidence

of the defendant's persistent and unsolicited contact that

understandably caused her distress. To the extent the plaintiff

subjectively feared imminent personal harm from the defendant's

frequent contact, erratic behavior, and threats of self-harm,

her fear was not reasonable absent any evidence that the

defendant ever threatened her or had previously attempted to

harm her. See Wooldridge v. Hickey, 45 Mass. App. Ct. 637, 639

(1998) ("Generalized apprehension, nervousness, feeling
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aggravated or hassled, i.e., psychological distress from vexing

but nonphysical intercourse, when there is no threat of imminent

serious physical harm, does not rise to the level of fear of

imminent serious physical harm"). Similarly, while the

plaintiff's past experience with the defendant grabbing her

minor child out of her arms could have heightened her

apprehension of the defendant, her subjective apprehension does

not satisfy an objective standard of fear of imminent serious

physical harm. See Keene v. Gangi, 60 Mass. App. Ct. 667, 670

(2004) ("no matter how subjectively real [the plaintiff's]

apprehension might have been, it was unsupported by objective

evidence sufficient to show, as required by G. L. c. 209A, § 1,

that she was 'in fear of imminent serious physical harm'").

Conclusion. The extension order dated August 29, 2023, is

vacated, and the case is remanded to the District Court for the

entry of an order directing the appropriate law enforcement

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agency to destroy all records of the vacated order in accordance

with G. L. c. 209A, § 7, third par.7

So ordered.

By the Court (Ditkoff,
Englander & Smyth, JJ.8),

Clerk

Entered: February 21, 2025.

7 While we note that the judge's decisions to extend the
order before allowing counsel for the defendant a meaningful
opportunity to cross-examine the plaintiff, and without
inquiring whether the defendant was prepared to testify in
opposition to the extension of the order, are inconsistent with
best practices, we need not address the merits of the
defendant's argument that he was denied a reasonable opportunity
to be heard because the evidence at the hearing was inadequate
to support a 209A order. See Idris I. v. Hazel H., 100 Mass.
App. Ct. 784, 788 (2022) (defendant has right to opportunity to
be heard at hearing on application for 209A order);
Massachusetts Trial Court, Guidelines for Judicial Practice:
Abuse Prevention Proceedings § 1:02 (Oct. 2021) ("Each party
must be given a meaningful opportunity to challenge the other
party's evidence in any contested hearing").

8 The panelists are listed in order of seniority.
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