In the Interest of A.B.-S. and A.B.-S., Minor Children

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 24-1706
Filed January 9, 2025

IN THE INTEREST OF A.B.-S. and A.B.-S.,
Minor Children,

N.B., Father,
Appellant.
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Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Linn County, Carrie K. Bryner,

Judge.

A father appeals the termination of his parental rights to two children.

AFFIRMED.

Michael M. Lindeman of Lindeman Law, Cedar Rapids, for appellant father.

Brenna Bird, Attorney General, and Lisa Jeanes, Assistant Attorney

General, for appellee State.

Julie Trachta, Linn County Advocate, Cedar Rapids, attorney and guardian

ad litem for minor children.

Considered by Schumacher, P.J., and Buller and Langholz, JJ.
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BULLER, Judge.

The father appeals termination of his parental rights to two children, both

born in 2021. We affirm, finding the only issue properly presented concerns the

permissive bond exception, and we decline to thwart termination on that basis.

Background Facts and Proceedings. This family most recently came to

the attention of the Iowa Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) in

February 2023 due to the mother’s substance abuse. The mother’s drug issues

led to the children being placed with the father under a safety plan. They remained

with the father until he tested positive for methamphetamine. The children were

then drug-tested themselves, and one tested positive for ingestion of

methamphetamine. The children were removed from the father’s custody and

placed in a relative placement, where they have remained.

The father denied methamphetamine use, blaming the positive test result in

May on an “ecstasy” pill he took in February. But a single pill does not explain the

positive hair-stat result, which tested for long-term use. Nor does it explain how

the child tested positive for methamphetamine in June. The father’s participation

with drug-testing varied from regular to inconsistent over the life of the case, and

when he went in for a substance-abuse evaluation, he failed to disclose the

positive methamphetamine test result, which led to the evaluator not

recommending treatment.

Before this most recent involvement with HHS, the department confirmed a

report of child abuse against the father for domestic violence perpetrated against

the mother outside a social-services office in 2022. Two government employees

witnessed the incident, which involved the father grabbing the mother’s arm,
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bruising her, and threatening to run her and the children over with his car. The

father denied the incident, but HHS confirmed the assessment, criminal charges

were filed, and the court entered a no-contact order. The father ultimately pled

guilty to disorderly conduct. On other occasions that were reported but not

criminally charged, the father threatened to kill the mother and her new boyfriend

and threw a cup at her that caused an injury requiring stitches. The mother also

reported on a separate occasion that the father “whooped her ass” and was

generally controlling and emotionally abusive.

In addition to domestic violence, the father has a long criminal history that

includes operating while intoxicated, multiple drug-related charges, thefts, escape

from custody, interference with official acts, and assault with intent to commit sex

abuse causing bodily injury. He remains on the sex offender registry and has been

convicted of violating its requirements multiple times. He also violated parole by

using controlled substances and absconding from work-release facilities.

The father attended visits with the children, though he was sometimes

unprepared—lacking diapers or other needed supplies—and did not give the

children his full attention, instead falling asleep and making video calls. For a time,

he was having two visits per week, one of which was supervised by the relative

placement. But after the father accused the relative of using drugs and harassed

her, she was no longer comfortable supervising. The father denied his behavior

caused the extra visits to end, blaming the relative instead. His visits progressed

to semi-supervised but reverted to fully supervised after a different child was

removed from his custody because that child was born positive for

methamphetamine.
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There was widespread agreement that the father loved the children and was

bonded to them. Two of his friends and an ex-girlfriend testified that he was a

good father and cared about them. And he told the court he loved them “with all

[his] heart.”

At trial, the father disputed nearly everything that led up to the termination

trial. He downplayed or denied the domestic assaults against the mother. He

continued to blame the pill he took while “partying” for the positive

methamphetamine test months later. And he denied or tried to explain away

instances that HHS and others claimed he was dishonest, manipulative, deceptive,

or disparaging toward the court. He told the court he had started anger-

management therapy the day before trial. And, on cross-examination, he admitted

that a previous partner had also petitioned for relief from domestic violence he

perpetrated and that a no-contact order was entered by the court in that case.

When asked what he needed to work on to improve his parenting and resume care

of the children, he said: “I think that I pretty much mastered being a father.”

In its written ruling, the juvenile court made multiple adverse credibility

findings:

The Court does not find [the father] to be credible. He has
been found lying and misleading about very large issues and very
minor issues continuously throughout this case. Even during his
testimony he was giving contradictory statements. Noticeably, he
continued to deny any substance use issues, and anger
management/domestic violence issues. He also denied the
provider’s reports of some of the statements he made at visits, or had
an explanation for anything that made him look bad. [The father] has
lied to the Court and HHS, to his ex-girlfriend and even has a few
theft charges. His lack of credibility makes it impossible for the Court
to believe his assertions that he is a sober, safe parent.
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Related to the father’s denial of problems with safety and sobriety, the court found

“he did not engage in any services to enable him to make long-term lifestyle

changes” and that he was therefore “likely to continue a cycle of domestic violence

and substance use issues.” One specific instance of dishonesty found by the court

was that, when the father had custody of the children in 2023, he lied to HHS and

allowed the mother to have unsupervised time with the children—contrary to court

orders removing them from the mother’s custody due to her methamphetamine

use.

The children were doing well in their relative placement, which could be a

long-term home for them.

The county attorney, HHS, and the GAL recommended termination of

parental rights. The court terminated the father’s rights under Iowa Code

section 232.116(1)(h) (2024). The mother ultimately consented to termination, and

her rights are not at issue in this appeal. The father appeals, and we review de

novo. See In re W.M., 957 N.W.2d 305, 312 (Iowa 2021).

Waiver. The first heading of the father’s petition on appeal refers generally

to the State’s burden at termination. And the text that follows lists the statutory

elements. But the father does not actually levy a challenge to any of these

elements, instead complaining that “once [he] lost the trust of [HHS], he was never

going to progress in reunification.” The State argues we should find this first

division of the father’s petition is not sufficiently detailed or legally cogent to provide

an issue we can review. See Iowa Rs. App. P. 6.201(1)(d), .1401–Form 5; In re

K.D., No. 21-0581, 2021 WL 3897419, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Sept. 1, 2021)

(discussing these rules). We agree. We cannot discern any issue appropriate for
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analysis on the merits without undertaking the father’s research and advocacy for

him, and this we are forbidden to do. See Inghram v. Dairyland Mut. Ins. Co., 215

N.W.2d 239, 240 (Iowa 1974).

That said, we note in the interest of completeness that we have reviewed

the record in its entirety, and we are convinced the State satisfied its burden under

section 232.116(1)(h) given the father’s longstanding and largely unaddressed

history of problems with substance abuse and domestic violence and the juvenile

court’s express credibility findings about the father’s dishonesty and lack of

commitment to change. We are similarly satisfied that additional time was not

warranted as there was no prospect of the father remedying his deficits in the next

six months. See In re W.T., 967 N.W.2d 315, 323 (Iowa 2021); see also Iowa

Code § 232.104(2)(b). We would affirm if the merits were before us.

Permissive Bond Exception. The second heading of the father’s petition

on appeal invokes the permissive bond exception. See Iowa Code

§ 232.116(3)(c). It is not clear to us the juvenile court ruled on the applicability of

the exception, but we will assume without deciding error was preserved. A parent

resisting termination based on this permissive exception has the burden to prove

by clear and convincing evidence that severing their bond with the children would

be detrimental. Id.; see W.T., 967 N.W.2d at 324. And our case law recognizes

that—without more—neither a parent’s love nor the mere existence of a bond is

enough to prevent termination. See In re A.B., 956 N.W.2d 162, 169–70

(Iowa 2021); In re D.W., 791 N.W.2d 703, 709 (Iowa 2010). The record establishes

the father loves his children and that they are bonded. But love and a bond are

not enough to justify thwarting an otherwise proper termination. In considering the
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facts and circumstances of this case, we decline to apply the bond exception,

finding instead that termination is in the children’s best interests: they need

stability, and the father’s history of substance-abuse and domestic-violence

problems coupled with his dishonesty demonstrates he cannot provide a safe and

sober home now or in the immediate future. See In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d 212, 225

(Iowa 2016) (noting we consider the bond in the context of a case’s unique

circumstances and the children’s best interests).

AFFIRMED.